Hello!
I know that I'm not in English. But I've noticed that.
For example: A girl blocked me, when I tried to send her a PM! It says: has blocked you; you are not allowed to invite, join, or send him a PM.
Looool. How do you know that the person is male or female. Him? Why him? She is a girl. Her.
Regards.

lol i know right
a suggest would be
you are not aloud to invite, join or send them a pm

agree with you, dardar

if you know she's a girl you don't need it to be changed. :P

Hi,
Generally, when refering to a non specific person, and we do not know the gender of him/her, in English as far as I know they use him. A teacher told me that due to a feminist movement of the last two decades, it is fairly acceptable to use her instead of him. Some others in these cases use both him and her joined by a slash, as in him/her.
Cheers.

bleh to that